Parenting tips for positive childcare and school drop-offs

Let’s face it, childcare or school goodbyes can be tough, both on our kids and us. Your child may cling to you at the gate, tugging at your legs and emotional heartstrings as you try to leave.

If this has been your experience, it is common. Some level of separation anxiety is developmentally normal in young children. It can happen when they start care or school for the first time, change centre or school, or move up a level. They could also have a more shy or nervous temperament and need extra support to separate from you.

Our latest article has some practical ideas that parents and carers can try to help children cope and settle well, keeping in mind that you know best what might make goodbyes easier.

Strategies include having a special ‘goodbye ritual’ before leaving, comforting and communicating to ease fears, as well as practical ways to maintain a positive attitude, like games and role play.

The Triple P – Positive Parenting Program can help families with raising confident kids, to find out more, visit Triple P Online. If your child is aged six and up, you can help them build resilience through Fear-Less Triple P Online.